$("#carSatisfaction").find("option[value="+jsonObj[0].carSatisfaction+"]").attr("selected",true);
<tr>
<td width="100" align="center">满意度:</td>
<td align="left">
<select id="carSatisfaction" name="carSatisfaction" >
<option value="0">很满意</option>
<option value="1">满意</option>
<option value="2">一般</option>
<option value="3">不满意</option>
</select>
</td>
</tr>