【薪火計劃】04 - 心態和角色

{"type":"doc","content":[{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":2},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"一、關注自己到關注他人","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"關注自己到關注他人，就是利己到利他，基本上就是全局的角度看待事情，而不單單是自己一畝三分地裏耕耘，團隊出的任何事情，首要責任就在管理者身上，不再是單打獨鬥了，你個人表現再好沒有用的，就好像打籃球，你個人得到60分，但是如果比賽輸了，哪怕你是張伯倫再世，得到100分也沒有用，整個的團隊的成績纔是你的成績。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":2},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"二、把人當人看","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"說到慈悲，我想到了弘一法師，也就是李叔同，在電影《一輪明月》中，有這樣一個場景，在西湖上，兩舟相向，此時，李叔同已選擇在杭州虎跑寺出家，他的日本妻子匆匆趕來，只爲得到他的回答，愛是什麼，他回答道，愛，就是慈悲。他的妻子所問的是男女之愛，李叔同回答的是衆生之愛，由小愛轉爲大愛。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"豐子愷提到人生的三重境界，就是在說自己的恩師李叔同，分別是物質生活，就是人最基本的生存，成家立業，追求物質；精神生活，就是醉心於藝術創作之中；靈魂生活，就是宗教。其實這個和課堂上討論的東西很像，也是心態和角色的變化，那爲什麼會有這些變化呢？更多的是內驅力，就是自身的一種追求，但是管理有點不一樣，大部分人其實都是外部給的壓力，就是告訴你，你要做管理了，並不是你告訴你自己，你要做管理了。所以自己對自己身份的認知和肯定是很重要的，沒有這個肯定，後面的管理工作基本沒辦法開展，這是先決條件。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"說到李叔同，我覺得從他的一生來看，可挖掘的點其實還是很多的，很多道理都適用於管理上，就比如豐子愷的《懷念李叔同先生》裏說的那些事蹟一樣，很多如果用管理的思維去解讀，會很有意思，就比如：","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"“有一個人上音樂課時不唱歌而看別的書，有一個人上音樂課時吐痰在地板上，以爲李先生看不見的，其實他都知道。但他不立刻責備，等到下課後，他用很輕而嚴肅的聲音鄭重地說：“某某等一等出去。”於是這位某某同學只得站着。等到別的同學都出去了，他又用輕而嚴肅的聲音向這某某同學和氣地說：“下次上課時不要看別的書。”或者：“下次痰不要吐在地板上。”說過之後他微微一鞠躬，表示你出去罷。出來的人大都臉上發紅。”","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"這個部分涉及批評下屬，如何可以更好解決的情況了。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"“有一次他到我家。我請他藤椅子裏坐。他把藤椅子輕輕搖動，然後慢慢地坐下去。起先我不敢問。後來看他每次都如此，我就啓問。法師回答我說：“這椅子裏頭，兩根藤之間，也許有小蟲伏着。突然坐下去，要把它們壓死，所以先搖動一下，慢慢地坐下去，好讓它們走避。”","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"爲人處世，更多的寬容，慈悲之心罷。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":2},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"三、主動溝通","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"這個我能想到的應該是儘量減少信息不對稱，有些時候會有這樣的情況，比如你把自己手頭的工作安排給到別人，換位思考，我做的好好的，明明是你的事情，爲什麼讓我來做呢？我本來做好手頭的事情，自己就可以輕鬆點了，你現在突然把自己的工作安排給我，那你是不是就一身輕鬆了，合着我是沒事情做嗎？","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"人應該都會有這樣的想法，所以，一些工作安排，就需要和其坦誠溝通，進行信息交流，比如和他說清楚當前的情況，我現在身上有好多事情，比如這個比如那個，實在是忙不過來，沒辦法在現階段去完成了，本來一直想做這些工作的，因爲是我自己負責的，當然最瞭解了，現在換人了，反而增加了要去了解的成本，我想，如果能夠積極去溝通，積極去讓別人知道你在做什麼，你在忙些什麼，那麼對方應該是會明白和理解的，溝通的重要性也體現在這裏。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":2},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"四、經營者的心態","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"正如課堂上討論的，如果自己經營着一家雜貨店，那麼應該怎麼做呢？如果自己只是這家雜貨店的收銀員，估計每天也就是對對賬而已，但是如果自己是雜貨店的老闆，那麼要考慮的東西就很多了：","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":" 雜貨店開在哪裏？","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":" 雜貨店從哪裏進貨？","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":" 雜貨店重點賣什麼？","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":" 雜貨店需要賺多少才能盈利？","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":" ......","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"很多很多的問題，這就是身處不同位置，所需要考慮的事情不一樣，回到管理本身，如果自己只是開發人員，那麼只需要做好手頭的工作即可，但是管理一個團隊，要考慮整個團隊的運轉，分工是否明確，計劃是否合理等等等等。這些都要清晰的認識到角色不同，所需要承擔的責任是不一樣的。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"回到豐子愷《懷念李叔同先生》這篇文章，裏面還提到了李叔同從小到大，各種角色的轉變：","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"“他出身於富裕之家，他的父親是天津有名的銀行家，在上海南洋公學讀書奉母時，他是一個翩翩公子。”","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"“後來他到日本，看見明治維新的文化，就渴慕西洋文明。他立刻放棄了翩翩公子的態度，改做一個留學生。”","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"“他在日本演當時西洋著名的悲劇《茶花女》時，高帽子、燕尾服、尖頭皮鞋，竟活像一個西洋人。”","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"“他回國後不久，就被南京高等師範請去教圖畫、音樂。後來又應杭州師範之聘，同時兼任兩個學校的課，這時候，李先生已由留學生變爲教師。漂亮的洋裝不穿了，卻換上灰色粗布袍子、黑布馬褂、布底鞋子。”","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"“出家後，再去望他時，他已光着頭皮，穿着僧衣，儼然一位清癯的法師了。”","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"“弘一法師每做一種人，都做得十分像樣。好比全能的優伶：起青衣像個青衣，起老生像個老生，起大面又像個大面......都是認真的緣故。”","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"從上面的例子，可以知道做事認真的重要性，其實恰好說明了，要成爲那一種人，先假裝自己就是那種人。在我看來，李叔同之所以身份能夠變換得很成功，除了認真，也從着裝上潛移默化地強化了這種認知，我現在是這種人了，就應該要做這種人應該做的事情。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"  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