我35歲了，就活該被“拋棄”嗎？

{"type":"doc","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"blockquote","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"不要“妖魔化”35歲"}]}]},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":2},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"程序員的35歲魔咒"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"不知道從什麼時候起，35歲變成了一個很“殘酷”的年齡。35歲的中浪，稍不留神，就可能被前浪和後浪拍打在沙灘上，連浪花都不剩。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"中年危機已是一個普遍的社會問題。但對程序員這個羣體來說，35歲的危機感似乎格外重一些。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"“因爲程序員的工資普遍高於其他行業，一旦這個行業不要你了，（薪資）可能會面臨斷崖式下跌，所以纔會有危機”，資深程序員趙可（化名）說。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"35歲是一道界限分明的職場分水嶺，最尷尬莫過於“高不成、低不就”。如果到了35、40歲還沒晉升上管理層去，就會面臨失業、被社會淘汰的風險。一位35+程序員在求職網站自述，他在今年年初被裁後的2個月裏，瘋狂海投簡歷、面試，只拿到了6個非大廠offer，最終他決定平薪入職其中一家。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"打擊面並不僅限於職場。 在某社交平臺上，一位程序員憤憤表示，新認識的交友對象對“程序員到了35歲就退休”的定律感到介意，以致於感情快告吹了。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"越臨近35歲，焦慮感越發強烈起來。打開不少社交平臺的相關話題頁，你很容易被各種憂心忡忡的情緒所感染，35+程序員懊惱失業，就連20+的年輕人也開始擔憂未來會失業..."}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"InfoQ接觸到的幾位35+技術人坦言，自己曾因爲年齡的問題而感到焦慮。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"blockquote","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我產生過年齡上的焦慮，首先覺得自己沒有財務自由，也不是老闆，隨時會面臨各種選擇，跟年輕時的狀態確實不一樣了。"}]}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"blockquote","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"當到35歲時，我確實感覺到，自己和更年輕的同學間有些不同。身體的能力沒有以前充沛了，感覺沒以前那麼能熬夜了，學習新事物的速度也慢了一些，可能需要更規律的管理時間以保持充沛精力投入工作。"}]}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"blockquote","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"尤其當我成立了家庭，有了孩子後，需要承擔的角色和責任更多了，一開始覺得有轉變的時候，內心其實還是有點慌的。"}]}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}}]}