愛發朋友圈不等於作秀

一旦遇到美好的事物,我就喜歡分享,大多以發朋友圈的形式,我不在乎一天發幾條朋友圈,也不在乎分享的對象是誰,是否熟悉,我只是想要分享,分享自己看到的和感受到的美好,至於有沒有人點贊評論,我都不放在心上。而且發過之後,我會時不時回顧,又能重溫當時的美好心情。所以我覺得發朋友圈於我是一件很自然且很划算的事了。

once meeting pleasant and joyful things,  i'd like to share with people by picturing them on  my Wechat Moments. i don't care how many moments i have post, i don't care who i share with and whether familiar with me either. i just want to post out what i saw and my feeling on beauties and it's none of my business if there are compliments or comments below them. But i review them from time to time to get the good mood again. so i regard it a natural countable thing  for me to share moments on wechat.

最近,有不懷好意的人,上來評論幾句:“一天到晚發這些,有意思嗎?”“今天發了好幾條了吧!”他的評論與我的內容無關,但我的心情卻瞬間跌到谷底。但我還是善意提醒他:微信有屏蔽和刪除功能,他說懶得屏蔽。我不理解,爲什麼他寧願費力氣打上幾行字也不願點幾下屏幕,以徹底“永除後患”。人啊,真是複雜的動物!

Recently, there was one with bad intention, commented some words about what my post. "Are you fancy yourself by posting these things ?" what's the number of today's posts?" what he said was not about my contents, but frustrated my heart. i reply him with kindness, "there is  function like shield or unfriending sb." he said it was too trouble to do it. i can't understand why he rather type lines of words than simply click a few to get rid of me. what a complex animal the human is!

在多數人眼裏,發朋友圈秀美好大概是種虛榮的行爲,所以很多人不發了,一年沒有幾條,有也是關於工作關於國家、黨和人民。對自己的生活一概不發,也有些人是不把朋友圈放在眼裏的,覺得這個功能聊勝於無,並不把這個功能當作瞭解別人和表達自己的窗口。出於內心的選擇,都很好。可爲什麼愛發朋友圈的人會被人認爲虛榮呢?

In many humans' eyes, posting moments on wechat is a behaviour about vanity, and that's why they don't do it. what they post were mostly relevant to country affairs, spoke nothing about their real life. some people choose to neglect the friend circle, think it is more than nothing,let alone to take it as a window to know others or a self-expression way.  they are all nice if chosen by heart. being fond of posting moments, how comes it was thought being of vainity? 

據我瞭解,這大概和“秀”有關,有人秀恩愛,就有人秀生活,秀美好。人們普遍不喜歡看“秀",覺得和做作虛僞脫不了干係。從字面上看,“秀”是“show"翻譯而來,在中國古代,秀是褒義的,是個形容詞,表示優美,俊秀。所以有“優秀”“秀麗”“秀才”這樣的單詞。它的本義裏沒有“虛假”的成分。可現在,大多時候,它常常被人們做動詞使用,表示僞裝或暴露。致使“一切主動的暴露都有僞裝和做作的嫌疑”。所以人們看不慣,也表示很討厭這些行爲。

As what i knew, it may be conneted to show. some show love, some show life and beauty. people don't like show commonly and consider it  hypocritical. Seeing from the letter, xiu was tranfromed from show. in ancient china, xiu was a good word to discribe something really wonderful. so there are words as xiuli,youxiu,and xiucai. its original meaning doesn't contain bad parts.  however, it many times now was used to be a verb meaning disguise or explose, which led everything show out actively to a suspicious of making-up. thus, people don't like even hate these behaviours.   

李子柒做了很多精緻的短視頻,成功宣揚了中國的傳統文化,也有不少人說她作秀;有的人寫得一手好書法,發在朋友圈,也有說他作秀;如今我經常遊山玩水,分享一些自認爲美好的風景照,也有人說我作秀。那麼十年沉默如一日的人,大概是最不作秀的,他們的生活無從瞭解,也不想讓人有所瞭解,他們都想活成歷史上的一個個“未解之謎”。

ziqi,LI has made a lot of short vidios, which boost our traditional cultral successfully.  a small part claimed her unreal; someone  writting a hand of good calligraphy, posting on wechat, was commentted a make-show. today i shared some pretty photoes while out for playing, also regarded as a make-show. the realest  would be the ones keeping in silent for more than ten years, there is no way to learn about them and that's exactly what they want. maybe they'd live to be an uncovered mystory in history. 

我無意中總結了這些被人嫌之又恨的“作秀“行爲,大概不是和“優秀”就是和“美好”有關,李子柒的視頻是非常優秀的,那些模仿她的人難以望其項背;而擁有一技之長的人自不用說,也是優秀的,他們把技藝當樂趣進行分享,刺痛了那些技不如人的眼睛;那些秀美好生活的,大概是最大程度被人恨的,因爲大部分人天天生活在要麼賺錢要麼在比較誰的錢多的焦慮中度過,哪有什麼美好呢?他們堅信擁有足夠多的錢才能擁有美好生活。他們要秀的是房子,車子,金銀珠寶和奢華婚禮現場,除此之外,其它的“秀”都名不副實。

我有個朋友,幾年了,看他朋友圈寥寥幾條,一條是買了車,一條是參加別人的婚禮,一條是升了職,還有一條是兒子出生了。一目瞭然,大概人到中年,就只有幾件事情是他覺得值得拿來“秀一秀”的。

而我之所以秀,是因爲不能忍受生活裏被一大片空白所佔據,每天都每天發生的事,就算是重複動作,也會有些許不同,畢竟人不是機器,而是有靈魂有思想有創造力。所以,我儘可能留下每一天的獨特痕跡。

生命對我來說並不算漫長,幾十年也很快就過去了。我把日子當成容器,來承載不同的內容。在擁有了相機的電腦本的年代,記錄對我們來說是毫不費力的,而記憶對我來說卻日益艱難,一旦忘記,就意味着徹底失去。這不是電影《尋夢環遊記》裏訴說的真理嗎?

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