爱发朋友圈不等于作秀

一旦遇到美好的事物,我就喜欢分享,大多以发朋友圈的形式,我不在乎一天发几条朋友圈,也不在乎分享的对象是谁,是否熟悉,我只是想要分享,分享自己看到的和感受到的美好,至于有没有人点赞评论,我都不放在心上。而且发过之后,我会时不时回顾,又能重温当时的美好心情。所以我觉得发朋友圈于我是一件很自然且很划算的事了。

once meeting pleasant and joyful things,  i'd like to share with people by picturing them on  my Wechat Moments. i don't care how many moments i have post, i don't care who i share with and whether familiar with me either. i just want to post out what i saw and my feeling on beauties and it's none of my business if there are compliments or comments below them. But i review them from time to time to get the good mood again. so i regard it a natural countable thing  for me to share moments on wechat.

最近,有不怀好意的人,上来评论几句:“一天到晚发这些,有意思吗?”“今天发了好几条了吧!”他的评论与我的内容无关,但我的心情却瞬间跌到谷底。但我还是善意提醒他:微信有屏蔽和删除功能,他说懒得屏蔽。我不理解,为什么他宁愿费力气打上几行字也不愿点几下屏幕,以彻底“永除后患”。人啊,真是复杂的动物!

Recently, there was one with bad intention, commented some words about what my post. "Are you fancy yourself by posting these things ?" what's the number of today's posts?" what he said was not about my contents, but frustrated my heart. i reply him with kindness, "there is  function like shield or unfriending sb." he said it was too trouble to do it. i can't understand why he rather type lines of words than simply click a few to get rid of me. what a complex animal the human is!

在多数人眼里,发朋友圈秀美好大概是种虚荣的行为,所以很多人不发了,一年没有几条,有也是关于工作关于国家、党和人民。对自己的生活一概不发,也有些人是不把朋友圈放在眼里的,觉得这个功能聊胜于无,并不把这个功能当作了解别人和表达自己的窗口。出于内心的选择,都很好。可为什么爱发朋友圈的人会被人认为虚荣呢?

In many humans' eyes, posting moments on wechat is a behaviour about vanity, and that's why they don't do it. what they post were mostly relevant to country affairs, spoke nothing about their real life. some people choose to neglect the friend circle, think it is more than nothing,let alone to take it as a window to know others or a self-expression way.  they are all nice if chosen by heart. being fond of posting moments, how comes it was thought being of vainity? 

据我了解,这大概和“秀”有关,有人秀恩爱,就有人秀生活,秀美好。人们普遍不喜欢看“秀",觉得和做作虚伪脱不了干系。从字面上看,“秀”是“show"翻译而来,在中国古代,秀是褒义的,是个形容词,表示优美,俊秀。所以有“优秀”“秀丽”“秀才”这样的单词。它的本义里没有“虚假”的成分。可现在,大多时候,它常常被人们做动词使用,表示伪装或暴露。致使“一切主动的暴露都有伪装和做作的嫌疑”。所以人们看不惯,也表示很讨厌这些行为。

As what i knew, it may be conneted to show. some show love, some show life and beauty. people don't like show commonly and consider it  hypocritical. Seeing from the letter, xiu was tranfromed from show. in ancient china, xiu was a good word to discribe something really wonderful. so there are words as xiuli,youxiu,and xiucai. its original meaning doesn't contain bad parts.  however, it many times now was used to be a verb meaning disguise or explose, which led everything show out actively to a suspicious of making-up. thus, people don't like even hate these behaviours.   

李子柒做了很多精致的短视频,成功宣扬了中国的传统文化,也有不少人说她作秀;有的人写得一手好书法,发在朋友圈,也有说他作秀;如今我经常游山玩水,分享一些自认为美好的风景照,也有人说我作秀。那么十年沉默如一日的人,大概是最不作秀的,他们的生活无从了解,也不想让人有所了解,他们都想活成历史上的一个个“未解之谜”。

ziqi,LI has made a lot of short vidios, which boost our traditional cultral successfully.  a small part claimed her unreal; someone  writting a hand of good calligraphy, posting on wechat, was commentted a make-show. today i shared some pretty photoes while out for playing, also regarded as a make-show. the realest  would be the ones keeping in silent for more than ten years, there is no way to learn about them and that's exactly what they want. maybe they'd live to be an uncovered mystory in history. 

我无意中总结了这些被人嫌之又恨的“作秀“行为,大概不是和“优秀”就是和“美好”有关,李子柒的视频是非常优秀的,那些模仿她的人难以望其项背;而拥有一技之长的人自不用说,也是优秀的,他们把技艺当乐趣进行分享,刺痛了那些技不如人的眼睛;那些秀美好生活的,大概是最大程度被人恨的,因为大部分人天天生活在要么赚钱要么在比较谁的钱多的焦虑中度过,哪有什么美好呢?他们坚信拥有足够多的钱才能拥有美好生活。他们要秀的是房子,车子,金银珠宝和奢华婚礼现场,除此之外,其它的“秀”都名不副实。

我有个朋友,几年了,看他朋友圈寥寥几条,一条是买了车,一条是参加别人的婚礼,一条是升了职,还有一条是儿子出生了。一目了然,大概人到中年,就只有几件事情是他觉得值得拿来“秀一秀”的。

而我之所以秀,是因为不能忍受生活里被一大片空白所占据,每天都每天发生的事,就算是重复动作,也会有些许不同,毕竟人不是机器,而是有灵魂有思想有创造力。所以,我尽可能留下每一天的独特痕迹。

生命对我来说并不算漫长,几十年也很快就过去了。我把日子当成容器,来承载不同的内容。在拥有了相机的电脑本的年代,记录对我们来说是毫不费力的,而记忆对我来说却日益艰难,一旦忘记,就意味着彻底失去。这不是电影《寻梦环游记》里诉说的真理吗?

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