在而立之年之後 不惑之年之前 7年煩惱之中 猶如舟遇大霧 迷失之惑充斥四周
偶然看電視節目某女主持人獲贈好友的結婚禮物是一段文字：
愛是恆久忍耐，又有恩慈；愛是不嫉妒，愛是不自誇，不張狂，不做害羞的事，不求自己的益處，不輕易發怒，不計算人的惡，不喜歡不義，只喜歡真理；凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。
霎時迷霧之中閃現明燈之影，心中有個感覺——有方向了
查資料才知道這是聖經中的一段關於 愛 的描述，彷彿存在了n年的知己，今天才被我瞭解，感恩至於謹摘於此，望能夠給予同樣心中有愛，爲愛活着的你們以幫助，阿門。
Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude
"If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give away all my possessions, and if I hand over my body so that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never ends. But as for prophecies, they will come to and end; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will come to an end. For we know only in part, and we prophesy only in part; but when the complete comes, the partial will come to an end. When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; when I became an adult, I put an end to childish ways. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then we will see face to face. Now I know only in part; then I will know fully, even as I have been fully known. And now faith, hope and love abide, these three; and the greatest of these is love."
"我若能說萬人的方言，並天使的話語，卻沒有愛，我就成了鳴的鑼、響的鈸一般。我若有先知講道之能，也明白各樣的奧祕，各樣的知識，而且有全備的信，叫我能夠移山，卻沒有愛，我就算不得什麼。我若將所有的賙濟窮人，又捨己叫人焚燒，卻沒有愛，仍然與我無益。
愛是恆久忍耐，又有恩慈；愛是不嫉妒，愛是不自誇，不張狂，不做害羞的事，不求自己的益處，不輕易發怒，不計算人的惡，不喜歡不義，只喜歡真理；凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。
愛是永不止息。先知講道之能終必歸於無有，說方言之能終必停止，知識也終必歸於無有。我們現在所知道的有限，先知所講的也有限，等那完全的來到，這有限的必歸於無有了。我做孩子的時候，話語象孩子，心思象孩子，意念像孩子，既成了人，就把孩子的事丟棄了。我們如今彷彿對着鏡子觀看，模糊不清，到那時，就要面對面了。我如今所知道的有限，到那時就全知道，如同主知道我一樣。
——《聖經.新約》哥林多前書十三章四至八節