2020.3.17
日記
- 找到自己是每個人 都應該完成的人生任務。
- 實現自我認同就意味着對於自己是怎樣的人，將要去向何方，想要完成哪些事情，要擁有怎樣的社會關係，有着一種連續而穩定的認知。
- 而這種自我認同的形成，正是在不同的選擇和嘗試中獲得的。
- 空虛，迷茫，焦慮，我想應該是一種非常普遍的社會現象，而我也身在其中。
- 作爲懷有一腔熱血的青年，一直堅信人應該去追求自己的人生，可是卻不知道自己想要怎樣的人生和成爲怎樣的人。更確切的說，是一種自我懷疑，不知道如何平衡夢想與生活。
- 在實現自我認同的過程中有四個階段，早閉，混亂，延緩，達成。以承諾和探索爲兩個維度。
- 無疑我現在是處於混亂的狀態，低探索低承諾。即不太瞭解自己，也不確定未來的發展，也沒有用實際行動去探索。
- 現在每天只能看到眼前的生活，讓每天看上去不那麼頹廢。我不會去抽菸喝酒打遊戲，甚至每天荒廢了時間之後都有一種愧疚感，想保持健康的身體積極的情緒，在看不見遠方的時候，至少希望眼前做的每件事都是有意義的。
也許並不需要去急切的想着，什麼時候能找到作爲的自我，人生就是一個持續塑造自我的過程。 - 在這個世界上，要想真切的感受自我的存在，請務必去主動尋求一些目標，而不只是迴應世界對我們的要求。
- 我對自己的人生也有一定程度的構想，也許我想要的生活不一定會如期到來，但我會盡量靠近我想成爲的人，至少在焦慮和不安的時候不去否定自己。
diary
- To find oneself is a life task that everyone should accomplish.
- To realize self-identity means to have a continuous and stable cognition of who you are, where you are going, what you want to accomplish, and what kind of social relationship you want to have.
- And the formation of this kind of self-identity is precisely obtained in different choices and attempts.
Emptiness, confusion, anxiety, I think it should be a very common social phenomenon, and I am also in it. - As a young man with a passion, he always believed that people should pursue their own life, but he did not know what kind of life he wanted and what kind of person he would become. Rather, it’s self doubt, not knowing how to balance dream and life.
- There are four stages in the process of self-identity: early closure, confusion, delay and achievement. Commitment and exploration are two dimensions.
No doubt I am in a state of chaos, low exploration and low commitment. I don’t know myself very well, I’m not sure about the future development, and I haven’t explored it with practical actions. - Now we can only see the life in front of us everyday, which makes us not so decadent. I will not smoke, drink and play games. Even after I waste time every day, I have a sense of guilt. I want to keep a healthy and positive mood. When I can’t see the distance, I hope everything I do is meaningful.
- Maybe we don’t need to be eager to think about when we can find the self of action. Life is a process of continuously shaping ourselves.
- In this world, if you want to truly feel the existence of yourself, you must actively seek some goals, not just respond to the world’s demands on us.
- I also have some ideas about my life. Maybe the life I want will not come as scheduled, but I will try to be close to the person I want to be, at least not to deny myself when I am anxious and uneasy.