我35岁了，就活该被“抛弃”吗？

{"type":"doc","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"blockquote","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"不要“妖魔化”35岁"}]}]},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":2},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"程序员的35岁魔咒"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"不知道从什么时候起，35岁变成了一个很“残酷”的年龄。35岁的中浪，稍不留神，就可能被前浪和后浪拍打在沙滩上，连浪花都不剩。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"中年危机已是一个普遍的社会问题。但对程序员这个群体来说，35岁的危机感似乎格外重一些。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"“因为程序员的工资普遍高于其他行业，一旦这个行业不要你了，（薪资）可能会面临断崖式下跌，所以才会有危机”，资深程序员赵可（化名）说。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"35岁是一道界限分明的职场分水岭，最尴尬莫过于“高不成、低不就”。如果到了35、40岁还没晋升上管理层去，就会面临失业、被社会淘汰的风险。一位35+程序员在求职网站自述，他在今年年初被裁后的2个月里，疯狂海投简历、面试，只拿到了6个非大厂offer，最终他决定平薪入职其中一家。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"打击面并不仅限于职场。 在某社交平台上，一位程序员愤愤表示，新认识的交友对象对“程序员到了35岁就退休”的定律感到介意，以致于感情快告吹了。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"越临近35岁，焦虑感越发强烈起来。打开不少社交平台的相关话题页，你很容易被各种忧心忡忡的情绪所感染，35+程序员懊恼失业，就连20+的年轻人也开始担忧未来会失业..."}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"InfoQ接触到的几位35+技术人坦言，自己曾因为年龄的问题而感到焦虑。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"blockquote","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我产生过年龄上的焦虑，首先觉得自己没有财务自由，也不是老板，随时会面临各种选择，跟年轻时的状态确实不一样了。"}]}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"blockquote","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"当到35岁时，我确实感觉到，自己和更年轻的同学间有些不同。身体的能力没有以前充沛了，感觉没以前那么能熬夜了，学习新事物的速度也慢了一些，可能需要更规律的管理时间以保持充沛精力投入工作。"}]}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"blockquote","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"尤其当我成立了家庭，有了孩子后，需要承担的角色和责任更多了，一开始觉得有转变的时候，内心其实还是有点慌的。"}]}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}}]}