就地過年的程序員們

{"type":"doc","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"blockquote","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"今年過年不回家了，當程序員成爲“原年人”"}]}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"今年，你回家過年了嗎？"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"2021年的春節，註定要成爲無數國人心中最難忘的記憶。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"疫情還未完全消散，很多人被動選擇就地過年，成爲“原年人”。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"對於在外的“打工人”來說，這並非一件容易的事兒。就地過年意味着自己要一個人獨自在異地度過，少了全家人圍坐一起的熱鬧，逼仄的出租屋裏總是透着幾分冷清。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"過年的“氣氛組”，也發生了變化。不再邊聽着超市裏的“恭喜發財”採購年貨，越來越多的人線上網購，把年貨寄回家；握手寒暄、線下聚會變成了雲拜年，電子紅包；沒有了豪華版大餐，外賣成了年夜飯。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"過年不回家，好處也不少。不必擔心“每逢佳節胖三斤”了，終於能逃過七大姑八大姨的花式盤問，躲過各種催婚、相親招數，省去串門拜年的尷尬寒暄了。以往回家好不過三天便開始被父母嫌棄，現在每天都是皆大歡喜。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"InfoQ 跟幾位不回家過年的程序員聊了聊，他們中有的已經一年沒回過家了，有的已經習慣了在外生活的日子。即使最終沒法回家過年，他們都已通過電話、視頻、寄出家書等方式向家人表達了愛和思念。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"以下是 TA 們的就地過年計劃，以及對於年味兒的記憶。"}]},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":2},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"買好的票還是退了，父親電話裏說：不回來就不回來，就這樣吧"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"林睿淵（化名），某IT公司後端程序員，座標北京，老家河南洛陽"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"“不回來就不回來，就這樣吧”，電話那頭，老爸沒有表現出特別大的情緒波動，但我感覺到了他的失落，話語間透露着一絲無奈。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我老爸老媽特別想讓孩子們回來，畢竟一年沒見了。平時工作太忙，一般節假日也就放兩三天，回家基本上全跑在路上了。這次原本已經說好了回家過年，沒想到計劃趕不上變化。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"春運火車票剛開售，我就“搶”好了回家的票。臨放假一週前，確定回不去了，就把票退了。我諮詢了下河南老家的政策，村裏要求很嚴，到家需要隔離15天。這樣的話，就沒辦法回去了，疫情當下，嚴格點也是好事，就不給國家添麻煩了。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"今年，我和女朋友一起在北京過年。我倆是同一個地方的，回家隔離政策一樣，就都不回去了。我們給老爸老媽和我岳父岳母家各寄去了一份“年貨”— 一袋米 ，一桶油。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"就地過年，也要有儀式感。畢竟第一次沒在家裏過年，想把生活過得有味道一點。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"年前得空，我去市場買了對聯、家居擺件、燈光等，湊了“年貨氣氛組”，還給女朋友買了份禮物。接着，我花一下午的時間把家裏佈置了一番，等女朋友晚上下班回來，給她一個驚喜。她回來看到後，跟我說，覺得心裏暖暖的。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"三十晚上的年夜飯，我倆一起做。她很會做飯，我比較笨拙，就在一旁打打下手，她需要什麼東西我幫着拿或者我跑腿去買。兩個人喫就正常做兩三個菜就夠了，實用爲主。春節聯歡晚會向來不怎麼好看，就作爲背景音樂得了。喫完年夜飯，我倆去看個電影，影院要是不開門，就在家裏看。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"以前每年除夕，我爸媽、我弟、一家四口圍坐在一起包餃子，我媽是主力，我們仨打下手，歡聲笑語充滿整個屋子，這是我覺得最有年味的時刻。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"剩下的時間大部分就是走親戚了。有時候我覺得寒暄這個東西老假了，但還是要做，不過見見親戚還是很開心的。今年在工作地過年，我覺得也挺爽的，沒那麼多麻煩事兒了。回家確實有很多事要辦，買年貨、串門走親戚，麻煩並快樂着。這些例行的事情，偶爾做還好，但經常做了，感覺也就那個樣子。不過，今年不回家了，這些平常挺不耐煩的事，現在覺得還挺喜歡的。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"過年對我來說，是難得的放鬆時刻，沒有工作壓力，不用考慮亂七八糟的事情，心情舒暢自然。"}]},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":2},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"除夕夜一定要喫餃子，和家人視頻拜年"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"甄莉瑾（化名），某教育公司前端程序媛 ，座標北京，老家黑龍江鶴崗"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我老家在黑龍江鶴崗。之前我一直計劃要回家過年，而且我男朋友隨後也會過來我家拜年。但當黑龍江開始出現疫情的時候，我就隱隱覺得覺得可能回不去了。後來北京又開始出現疫情，我就徹底放棄回家的念頭了。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"現在北京和黑龍江的疫情都還沒解決，我最終決定不回去了，就地過年。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"這是我第一次不回家過年。幾天前，我跟父母通電話的時候，說了不回家過年的事，雖然大家都表示理解，但還是很失落。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"按照我家那邊的習俗，過年會提前準備很多喫的喝的。我從網上給家裏人買了一些喫的、飲料酒水之類的直接寄回去了。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"今年在工作地過年，整體感覺還好，單位發了過節費，北京這邊也有很多朋友，大家可以約着一起聚聚。年前我幾乎沒做什麼準備，我和其他人一起住的合租房，也不方便多準備什麼。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"大年三十的年夜飯，我打算喫餃子，買現成的餃子皮，自己做陷，自己包，按照我們家的習俗，年三十一定要喫餃子。 東北的年夜飯很豐富，有豬蹄、魚等，今年我自己就打算直接買熟食了。除夕夜，我父母、大爺、二大爺、小叔他們都在爺爺奶奶過，喫過飯，我會和家裏人視頻一下，線上拜拜年。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"往年我一般都是除夕前一天到家，第二天一大早就起來趕集，買年夜飯需要的菜，回家後收拾收拾屋子，然後開始做年夜飯，我媽和麪，大家一起包餃子，晚上一邊看春晚，一邊喫年夜飯。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"之後的初一到初六，我打算主要用來休息，期間可能會約朋友出去逛逛，之前還沒體驗過北京的過年氣氛。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"在老家過年，春節假期的活動會更豐富，初一一大早就去舅舅家和大爺家拜年，過了初三就可以跟朋友出去玩了，街上有個別開門營業的小店，可以進去喫喫東西，到初五很多商場就營業了，開啓逛街模式。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"在我印象中，老家的年味就是紅色，到處都是紅色的，家家都準備好多豬肉、雞肉.....不過現在也不讓放鞭炮了，年味淡了些。小時候在奶奶家習俗還挺多的，年三十要擺供臺，喫食都很講究寓意，如年年有魚，晚上還要通宵留燈。"}]},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":2},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我媽認真跟我說，響應國家號召就地過年"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"孫思哲（化名），電商行業前端工程師，座標杭州，老家青海西寧"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我，單身大齡前端程序猿一枚。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我在杭州一家電商公司工作，主要工作內容簡單來說就是寫代碼。在親戚眼裏，我這個工作就是“加班汪”+ 電子產品修理師，每次回家都會遇到讓我幫買電腦或看手機的問題這樣的需求..."}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"但其實，加班還好，基本是995，除了項目緊急的時候，週末基本都是雙休。年前沒什麼特別緊急的工作了，春節不會加班，開開心心過年。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我差不多有一年沒回家了，原計劃回家過年，順便見見很久沒見的老同學，朋友，約着逛逛。但最近感覺疫情又有嚴重的趨勢了，我老家是青海西寧，工作地距離家很遠，路上擔心會出什麼“幺蛾子”，這個時候回去風險很大且機票不便宜。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我媽也很認真的給我說，“響應國家號召，在工作地過年”。等疫情平穩了他們來杭州或者我休年假回去。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"但畢竟一個人過年，難免會覺得孤單，有點傷心不過沒那麼強烈，一個人在外面久了也習慣了。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我給老媽和大姨買了雅詩蘭黛的護膚品，給家裏買了浙江特產年糕和八寶飯，還有一封家書也一併寄了回去。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我早早買了些喫的，紅酒，不過能喫的被我喫的差不多了。年跟前，我又買了很多菜，爲大年三十晚上的年夜飯 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火鍋做準備。除夕我和大學同學也是我現在的室友一起過，二人喫着火鍋看春晚....剩下的假期，我打算和同學一起出去走走，以及學習一些線上課程，今年計劃對Go語言進行系統學習。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"不回家過年，對我來說，確實少了很多樂趣，最重要的是，回家能喫到羊肉！還能放煙花！"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我們一家人通常會提早一兩天去奶奶家準備年夜飯，一大家子人買很多東西，大人們準備食材，小孩們則一起出去玩。年三十那天，大家早早起來貼春聯、祭祖，爺爺已經滷好了肉，大家一起包餃子，晚上一家人看着春晚喫年夜飯...."}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"真的很懷念那個時候的過年。"}]},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":2},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"不回家過年沒啥，沒對象才讓我覺得孤單"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"俢禕晨（化名） ，後端工程師，座標杭州，老家福建"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我是一名後端工程師，在杭州工作，之前在金融行業，兩年前跳到了電商行業。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我家在福建。因爲疫情，回家比較麻煩，往年假期我都是和同學出門出遊小聚，今年回家也不能聚會了。而且，杭州政府給留杭非浙籍的春節過節補貼“很香”，我還是在杭州好好待著吧。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"家裏人也都表示能理解，希望疫情早日結束，恢復往日的生活。疫情確實比較煩，但總會過去的，我相信疫情一定會過去，生活還是要繼續。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"過年不回家，我倒沒覺得特別難過，一來，距離我上次回家也沒過多久，國慶回過一次了。二來我常年在外已經習慣了，我之前也有不回家過年的經歷，當時是在南京打寒假工。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"而且，現在微信這麼方便，發個視頻隨時可見。沒有對象才讓我覺得孤單、難過，目前比較煩的是沒有對象，平時工作很忙，忙到沒有時間找對象...."}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"今年春節假期，我就當國慶過了。因爲疫情，春節期間不讓加班，要不然我肯定申請，3倍工資不香嘛。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"大年三十我和同學一起過，當然我內心肯定是想和對象過的，可惜沒有哈哈，年夜飯我沒什麼特別的講究，和對象喫就算喫方便麪也是好的。我原本打算回家，回家的話親戚應該會給我安排相親。如果有單身在杭小姐姐歡迎加我哈，可聯繫作者（手動狗頭）。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"假期前幾天熱鬧下，後幾天我就打算安心學習了。工作壓力越來越大，我覺得自己的技術還是太“菜”，能力跟不上，得充充電了。"}]},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":2},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"團圓是我心裏最濃的年味，遺憾不能回家過年了"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"賀明遠（化名），敲代碼的；座標北京，老家河南"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我今年不回河南老家了，主要是因爲疫情，公司也發了通知，建議大家原地過年。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"回家的希望一點點落空，心情也變得越來越沮喪。過年還是希望盡一切力量回家的，一家人團團圓圓就是我心中最濃的年味。以前每到大年三十，我都是和爸媽一起在廚房忙活，準備飯菜，看春晚..."}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"這次沒法回家過年了，爸媽都覺得特別遺憾。這是我第一次不回家過年，之前一年沒回過家了，他們都很想念我。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"因爲擔心臨近春節物流會停運，我提前購置了一些過年用的東西，屯了一些糧食，也順便給爸媽買了一些年貨。公司給每個人發了年終禮品，有水果、糧油等。年前的工作不忙，春節假期期間也不用加班了，好好過年。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"今年除夕夜，我和朋友一起過。年夜飯就在家自己做，主要得有餃子，其他的菜看朋友們的想法隨意做。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"剩下的6天假期，我也做好了規劃，一日之計在於晨，每天上午學習，下午就打打遊戲，晚上搞些個人愛好，過一個簡單、充實的假期。往年都是各種串門、走親戚，今年可以有不一樣的體驗了，也不錯。"}]},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":2},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"今年，我們一家三口在廣州過年"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"許嘉立（化名），某遊戲公司後端開發，座標廣州，老家江西"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我在廣州一家遊戲公司做後端開發，老家在江西吉安。我從小在廣州長大，父母很早就在這裏工作，且已在廣州定居多年。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"但每逢春節，我們一家三口每年還是會回到江西老家過年，今年因爲疫情無法回去了，就在廣州過年了。"}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"因爲我從小不在老家長大，不回去過年對於我來說沒什麼特別大的影響。但我父母很傷心，我外公外婆年紀大了，他們還是希望子女有時間回去看看。"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