Advice by KK 摘錄
在阮老師的週刊看到了Kevin Kelly給年輕人的建議 blog。其中一些還挺有感觸的，此文只是自己做一下摘錄，並附上這個網站的中文翻譯版本。
68 Bits of Unsolicited Advice
- Learn how to learn from those you disagree with, or even offend you. See if you can find the truth in what they believe.
- 從你的不同意見人士，甚至冒犯你的人士那裏學習。嘗試去他們的信念當中找到真相。
前段時間看了《The Social Dilemma》。現在各種社交忘了的推薦算法不斷優化，我們越來越只能看到我們認同與贊同的一面。但是或許只有看得越來越全面，才能更加接近真理？
- Being enthusiastic is worth 25.
- 保持熱情，這相當於25點的智商值。
本社恐真的需要好好反思一下（唉
- Always demand a deadline. A deadline weeds out the extraneous and the ordinary. It prevents you from trying to make it perfect, so you have to make it different. Different is better.
- 總是要求最後期限。 最後期限淘汰掉無關緊要的事物。 它會阻止您嘗試使其完美，因此您必須使其與衆不同。與衆不同會更好。
最近在實習，對 deadline 還有一點理解。有 deadline 的話，不管我現在代碼結構有多麼糟糕，但是它能正常跑出正確的結果。把糟糕的代碼結構跑通後，我可以一邊跑結果，一邊優化重構，這樣就不耽誤事了。有點像我一直在重複提及的吳恩達老師在深度學習的課上說的話，先做一個完整但非常粗糙的模型，然後我們再去優化它。
- A worthy goal for a year is to learn enough about a subject so that you can’t believe how ignorant you were a year earlier.
- 有價值年度目標是要對某個主題有足夠的瞭解，以至於您不敢相信自己在一年前是那麼無知。
取得可以感受到的進步？
- Never use a credit card for credit. The only kind of credit, or debt, that is acceptable is debt to acquire something whose exchange value is extremely likely to increase, like in a home. The exchange value of most things diminishes or vanishes the moment you purchase them. Don’t be in debt to losers.
- 切勿使用信用卡讓自己負債。 唯一可以接受的信貸或債務，是那種其交換價值極有可能增加的東西，例如房屋。 大多數商品在購買後交換價值就會減少或消失。 不要爲了價值會降低的東西負債。
合理消費。
- Don’t be the smartest person in the room. Hangout with, and learn from, people smarter than yourself. Even better, find smart people who will disagree with you.
- 不要成爲房間裏最聰明的人。 與比自己聰明的人進行聊天，並向他們學習。 更好的是，找到不會同意你的那些聰明人。
不要做井底之蛙。
- Don’t be the best. Be the only.
- 不要成爲最好的。 成爲唯一。
想到最近在看的《哈利波特與火焰杯》這本書，在三強爭霸賽第一個項目前，穆迪讓哈利用他最擅長的魁地奇來對付火龍。沒有最好的，找到自己的特點就好。
- Everyone is shy. Other people are waiting for you to introduce yourself to them, they are waiting for you to send them an email, they are waiting for you to ask them on a date. Go ahead.
- 每個人都害羞。 其他人正在等待您向他們介紹自己，他們正在等待您向他們發送電子郵件，他們正在等待您向他們詢問日期。 向前推進。
社恐反省 +1
- The purpose of a habit is to remove that action from self-negotiation. You no longer expend energy deciding whether to do it. You just do it. Good habits can range from telling the truth, to flossing.
- 習慣的目的是從自我談判中消除這種行爲。 您不再需要花費精力來決定是否這樣做。 直接去做。良好的習慣可以從講真話到使用牙線。
（或者翻譯爲“自我妥協”比較好？
- The more you are interested in others, the more interesting they find you. To be interesting, be interested.
- 您對他人越感興趣，他們對您的興趣就越大。 要有趣，要有興趣。
- If you are looking for something in your house, and you finally find it, when you’re done with it, don’t put it back where you found it. Put it back where you first looked for it.
- 如果您正在房子裏尋找東西，而且最終把它找到了，找到後，不要將其放回找到的地方。 將其放回您最初尋找的位置。
哈哈哈，生活小妙招。
- Acquiring things will rarely bring you deep satisfaction. But acquiring experiences will.
- 買東西很少會給你帶來深刻的滿足感。 但是獲得經驗會。
- The universe is conspiring behind your back to make you a success. This will be much easier to do if you embrace this pronoia.
- 整個宇宙都在幕後謀劃讓您成功。 如果您接受這個天意，一切會變得更容易。
99 Additional Bits of Unsolicited Advice
- Learn how to tie a bowline knot. Practice in the dark. With one hand. For the rest of your life you’ll use this knot more times than you would ever believe.
雖然不太清楚 bowline knot 爲什麼這麼重要，但是小時候很喜歡一本《男孩的冒險書》，裏面教了好多繩結的系法，還蠻有意思的。
- Being wise means having more questions than answers.
- Your best response to an insult is “You’re probably right.” Often they are.
只要你不 care 別人，受傷的就是別人？
- If your goal does not have a schedule, it is a dream.
- People can’t remember more than 3 points from a speech.
想到做科研被老師們反覆強調的，一篇文章，一定要有一個 Take-home Message。
- When you are stuck, sleep on it. Let your subconscious work for you.
- Be a good ancestor. Do something a future generation will thank you for. A simple thing is to plant a tree.
- Advice like these are not laws. They are like hats. If one doesn’t fit, try another.
References
[1] 科技愛好者週刊（第 157 期）：KK 給年輕人的建議（https://github.com/ruanyf/weekly/blob/master/docs/issue-157.md）
[2] 68 Bits of Unsolicited Advice (https://kk.org/thetechnium/68-bits-of-unsolicited-advice/)
[3] 99 Additional Bits of Unsolicited Advice (https://kk.org/thetechnium/99-additional-bits-of-unsolicited-advice/)
[4] 68條不請自來的建議 – 凱文凱利 （http://www.danielteng.com/2020/05/25/68-unsolicited-adivices-kevin-kelly/）