盤點2020 | 大齡程序員的進化(從自由職業者到講師)

{"type":"doc","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"冬日裏的陽光透過牀邊的窗戶照進屋內,此刻我正在爲一個突如其來的 BUG 忙得焦頭爛額,指尖輕輕的在鍵盤上敲打着,陽光透過窗戶照在電腦的屏幕上略微有些反光,於是我放下手中的工作,迎着陽光照進來的方向向窗外望去,碧空如洗、雲光粼粼,美的一塌糊塗。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"此刻真想走在鋪滿落葉的小道上,迎着陽光聽鳥語花香,但現實中的我已經有兩個多月沒正常走路了。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"說來也不是什麼大事,就是騎電動車不下心把腳扭傷了,第五跖骨基底部骨折。然後就是近三個月的“痛苦掙扎”,所以你永遠不知道明天和意外哪一個先來,能健健康康的就是最大的幸福。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":1},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"痛苦感悟","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"如果非要說這兩個多月有什麼感悟的話,那麼就是以下幾條:","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"numberedlist","attrs":{"start":"1","normalizeStart":1},"content":[{"type":"listitem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":1,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"健康最重要,有些東西是錢買不來的;","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}},{"type":"listitem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":2,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"平靜的接受所謂的“天災”是最樸素的智慧;","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}},{"type":"listitem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":3,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"做你想做的任何事,在你有能力做的時候。","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"尤其是第 3 條,有時候在無聊的時候我就會想,如果我這輩子都“這樣了”,我將如何安排我的下半生?說實話能想到的只是無盡的失落和沮喪,我還有那麼多有趣的地方還沒有去呢,我還有那麼多要見的人還沒見呢,如果真是這樣了,那將何其悲涼?","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"在受傷的這段日子裏,有無數次我都做了同一個夢,在夢裏我的腳傷好了,我可以自由的奔跑在任何地方,每每如此我都高興的把自己笑醒了,說起來誇張但卻真實,所以醒來就會嘆息:這腳到底什麼時候好啊?於是每天都是煎熬的數着指頭過日子,期盼着腳好的那一天,向入獄的犯人那般。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":1},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"掙扎與嘗試的一年","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"說完了不開心的事,再說點開心的事吧。今年對我這個過了三十而立的人來說是掙扎與嘗試的一年,去年年底我從傳統的軟件開發公司正式辭職了,辭職之後做了半年的自由職業(主要以技術寫作爲生),之後去了一家培訓機構做老師。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"在軟件公司辭職前的那段時間很焦慮,相信這個年齡段的人或多或少都有,一邊是比你小了近十歲的新同事,又能加班工資有便宜,一邊是指着你喫飯的一家老小,如果這都沒有壓力,那一定是家裏有礦。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"所以那時候就整天琢磨着做點啥呢,思來想去覺得要做的這件事一定要滿足下面這些條件:","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"bulletedlist","content":[{"type":"listitem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"第一:做的事情一定是自己喜歡的,只有喜歡的事情你才能做好;","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}},{"type":"listitem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"第二:做的這件事的價值要能有積累;","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}},{"type":"listitem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"第三:做的這件事要有“穿越時間”的價值,不能過幾年就過時了;","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}},{"type":"listitem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"第四:這件事最好能有被動收益。","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}}],"attrs":{}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"於是思來想去覺得有兩件事比較契合我的要求:第一、寫技術專欄;第二、講課。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"同時這兩件事又極度符合我的價值觀,既能養家餬口又能給他人提供幫助,並且加上自己超強的自律能力和學習能力,一定能把這些事長久做下去,並且它也有時間的壁壘,能講課的人很多、會寫文章的人很多、有技術能力的大佬也很多,但能在這三個維度都做的好的人並不多。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"在現實生活中,想要從平庸走向卓越靠的並不是單一維度的競爭,比如說 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年洛杉磯奧運會中國的金牌得主,你還記得幾位?","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"blockquote","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"李寧、李玉偉、許海峯、吳小旋、郎平、曾國強、吳數德、陳偉強、姚景遠、欒菊傑、樓雲...","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"爲什麼我能只能記住其中的兩位(李寧和郎平)?","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"blockquote","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"因爲這兩位都在自己做到最好的維度,又開闢了一個或多個維度。","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"打個比方,假如有能力的技術大佬的競爭力是這樣的:技術(5分)","attrs":{}},{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"italic","attrs":{}}],"text":" 寫文章(1分)","attrs":{}},{"type":"text","text":" 會講課(1分)= 5 分,而我只要是:技術(3分)","attrs":{}},{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"italic","attrs":{}}],"text":" 寫文章(3分)","attrs":{}},{"type":"text","text":" 會講課(2分)= 18 分,顯然 18 分要遠大於 5 分,那麼我的優勢就顯而易見,這就是我們所說的多維度競爭策略。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"所以我在這一年用盡全力做了兩件事,前半年在拼盡全力的寫作,總共出了三個技術專欄,一個在拉勾上線,其他兩個在 GitChat(CSDN 旗下)上線,後半年在拼盡全力的給學生上課,所以你會看到近期我發佈的文章好像少了很多,但","attrs":{}},{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"strong","attrs":{}}],"text":"根據均值迴歸理論我們知道,萬物最終都將回歸於其長期的均值,所以不用擔心磊哥會慢慢回血","attrs":{}},{"type":"text","text":"。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":1},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"2020 年回顧","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"之前每年寫總結的時候都會加上明年的計劃,今年就不做計劃了(因爲暫時找不到可以量化的指標),今年簡單的來盤點一下收穫吧:","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"bulletedlist","content":[{"type":"listitem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"發佈原創文章 99 篇","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}},{"type":"listitem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"寫了 3 個付費專欄","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}},{"type":"listitem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"開啓了編程授課之路","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}},{"type":"listitem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"買了一套房子","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}},{"type":"listitem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"骨折(如果可以算的話...)","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}}],"attrs":{}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":1},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"“錢”重要嗎?","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"最後來聊點關於價值觀的問題,一個觀點:","attrs":{}},{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"strong","attrs":{}}],"text":"錢並不是最重要的,注意力 > 時間 > 金錢","attrs":{}},{"type":"text","text":"。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"我們","attrs":{}},{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"strong","attrs":{}}],"text":"努力的終極目標就是不用爲金錢而出賣自己的時間,所以證明時間比錢更有價值,如果不是這樣你的老闆也不會花錢購買你的時間,之所以僱你上班的本質是覺得你的時間更便宜","attrs":{}},{"type":"text","text":"。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"時間和注意力的區別在於,","attrs":{}},{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"strong","attrs":{}}],"text":"時間是不受你控制的,它只會自顧自地流去,你的注意力才真正屬於你","attrs":{}},{"type":"text","text":"。所以你看同樣是 24 個小時,有些人刷抖音也是一天,有些人自我成長也是一天,所以時間本質上對我們沒有“用處”,只有把注意力投入在重要的事情上纔能有所產出,所以你現在知道了吧:","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"blockquote","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"strong","attrs":{}}],"text":"注意力 > 時間 > 金錢","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"因此","attrs":{}},{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"strong","attrs":{}}],"text":"自我投資把錢用來換取有效且有用的注意力纔是最重要的","attrs":{}},{"type":"text","text":",所以找到真正有用得課程和培訓班就上吧,這纔是最有價值的投資。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"heading","attrs":{"align":null,"level":1},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"最後","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"有句話說的很有道理,你不知道不可怕,你不知道自己不知道才最可怕。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"2021 年願你不斷“進化”,成爲最好的自己,把注意力“浪費”在最值得的事情上。","attrs":{}}]},{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null}},{"type":"blockquote","content":[{"type":"paragraph","attrs":{"indent":0,"number":0,"align":null,"origin":null},"content":[{"type":"text","text":"PS:歲末年初,放出我的聯繫方式 VX:GG_Stone 希望和你能成爲朋友,一起成長。","attrs":{}}]}],"attrs":{}}]}
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